Fifteen UCC Senior Center sewing group members celebrated their quinceañera for the first time this year. (Photo provided by UCC)

I felt a bit overwhelmed when I visited the sewing group at the United Community Center’s Senior Center, 730 W. Washington St., and realized just how many members were waiting their turn to share their story with me.

That feeling washed away as one-by-one, they shared their beautiful and sometimes tragic memories with me.

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The women had all missed out on their quinceañeras, a Latin American rite of passage celebrated on a young woman’s 15th birthday.

Most shared stories about their families not having enough money for a large celebration, while others already had families of their own by that time. 

Thankfully, organizers at the United Community Center gave them another chance.

Together as seniors they wore beautiful dresses, danced to traditional songs and took hundreds of photos as they celebrated their quinceañeras. They glowed like teenagers.

What I felt was most important about my conversations with them was a lesson that several of the women taught me.

Although their bodies were older, they had young minds and still carried hopes and dreams that lived with them since their childhoods.

The quinceañera gave many of them a chance to realize one of those dreams.

Their stories made this story my favorite of 2023.

Read the story here.

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Raised in a South Side neighborhood where he still lives, Edgar Mendez is the managing editor of the Milwaukee Neighborhood News Service. Mendez is a proud graduate of UW-Milwaukee, where he double majored in journalism and sociology, and of Marquette University, where he earned a master’s degree in communication. He won a 2018 Regional Edward R. Murrow Award and 2014, 2017, and 2018 Milwaukee Press Club Awards for his reporting on taverns, marijuana law enforcement, and lead in water service lines. In 2008, he won a Society of Professional Journalists’ regional award for columns dealing with issues such as poverty, homelessness and racism. His writing has been published by the Associated Press, Reuters, Milwaukee Journal Sentinel and other media. He has also co-authored three articles published in scholarly journals.